…You’re invited to weddings as a friend of the parents rather than as a friend of the young couple.
Over the past year or two, YZG and I seem to have made that transition, which means that I now often find myself choosing to dance in what my friends and I jokingly refer to as “the old ladies’ circle” at weddings. After all, we’re guests of the bride or groom’s mother, and she’s most likely to be found in that, er, “more mature” circle.
However, there are times when I prefer to remain in the faster, regular circle.
And that’s when I feel really old.
You see, at
many some weddings, there are groups of young girls who apparently believe that dancing together with “senior citizens” (read: anyone over age 25) is demeaning and degrading.
As soon as they discover that members of the older generation actually know the steps to the dance (gasp!), the young girls will either: (a) switch to an even more complex dance, or (b) break away and form a new circle.
But happily, not everyone is like that. For instance, during the second (and generally more intricate) dancing set at a recent wedding, I realized that I vaguely recognized a certain dance. As I stood at the side and tried to recall the precise steps, a young 20-something came over and started announcing the steps. (“Step, step, kick, back,” etc.)
Unfortunately, we were separated by the dance’s movements before I had a chance to thank her, and I didn’t see her afterwards.
So, Anonymous Dark Haired Girl – on the off chance that you read this blog – thank you!
And on a related note, thank you also to Leora, who generously presented me with a very sweet award. (I’ll have to wait for our CTO – who also happens to be the Chief of Photography – to help me add the logo.) Leora’s blog, which is one of my favorites, is the place to go for her beautiful artwork and photographs – as well as thoughtful and sensitive posts on a wide range of topics. Check it out!
Thank you for your kind words. Look forward to seeing where you might send the award next.ReplyDelete
I've never had that experience at a wedding. Sometimes I do follow someone who is screaming out steps, however.
Leora - I just reread my post and realized that it sounded like the phenomenon is more widespread than it really is. I fixed the post to make it more accurate.ReplyDelete
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